Muaj tseeb hauv me nyuam yaus, txhua tus neeg tau hnov zoo tshaj plaws hais tias: silence yog kub. Thaum nws tseem yau nws raug dag ntxias thiab txawm tias nws raug kev txom nyem, vim hais tias muaj ntau yam uas kuv xav qhia, muaj coob tus sib faib, tab sis dheev nws ua kom paub tias koj yuav tsum nyob twj ywm, thiab qhov no tsis txaus siab yog qhov zoo dua li tham. Tab sis nrog lub hnub nyoog, maj los paub txog qhov tseeb ntawm qhov no. Silence yog kub. Thiab qhov no yog tiag tiag li. Yog li ntawd, nws yog tsim nyog xav txog txoj kev kawm kom paub ntsiag to thiab mloog, vim hais tias koj kawm tau ntau yam, yog tias tsuas yog nyob twj ywm thiab pib mloog lub ntiaj teb ib ncig, thiab tsis yog rau koj lub suab xwb. Yog li koj yuav kawm tau li cas twj ywm ntsiag to - tom qab ntawd hauv tsab xov xwm.
Yuav ua li cas kom paub ua ntsiag to - tswv yim tswv yim
Feem ntau, nws yuav zoo li, kom paub tias ntsiag to tsis yooj yim: koj coj thiab nyob twj ywm, tsis txhob hais lus. Tab sis cov txheej txheem no yog yooj yim tsuas yog los ntawm tej lub tswv yim pom, vim hais tias yog peb tham txog psychology, ces txhua yam yog cov nyuab dua.
Qhov yuav tsum tau hais rau ib tug neeg yog ib qho yooj yim. Tom qab tag nrho, yuav ua li cas ntxiv los qhia txog koj cov kev xav, kev txawj ntse, yog tias tsis yog los ntawm cov lus? Ib tug neeg hais tias ntau, vim nws tsis muaj peev xwm tiv nrog nws tus cwj pwm txawv thiab nws xav muab lawv tawm. Ib tug neeg, ntawm qhov tsis sib xws, nws sim ua qee qhov tsis muaj dab tsi nrog cov lus. Tiam sis ob peb tus neeg to taub tias qee zaus nws muaj nqis rau kev kawm kom nyob twj ywm rau qhov kev nkag siab zoo ntawm koj tus kheej thiab lub ntiaj teb nyob ib puag ncig koj.
Lub tswv yim ntawm kev paub txog kev ntsiag to yog qhov tseem ceeb: kom paub qhov tseem ceeb ntawm kev ntaus silence. Feem ntau cov kev sib raug zoo ntawm kev rhuav tshem los ntawm cov lus rhuav tshem, uas, yog tias koj xav txog lawv, tej zaum koj yuav tsis tau hais tawm rau txhua qhov. Tab sis lub sij hawm los xav txog
Qhov zoo tshaj plaws ntawm kev xyaum ua kom paub twj ywm thiab tsis tham lus yog qhov kev cog lus ntawm silence. Nws tsim nyog sim ua ntej kom nyob ntsiag to rau tsawg kawg ib hnub. Yog tias nyuaj rau txoj kev cog lus yooj yim, ces koj tuaj yeem tawm ntawm cov thawj koom ruam ntawm nyiaj nrog cov phooj ywg los ua ntej tsim rau koj tus kheej lub tswv yim dag. Tom qab hnub no ntawm silence, nws yog tsim nyog xav tias ntau npaum li cas lub sij hawm thiab lub zog mus rau hauv kev sib txuas lus uas tsis yog tag nrho cov tsim nyog, thiab muaj pes tsawg tiag tiag cov lus tseem ceeb nyob twj ywm, ploj nyob rau hauv ib tug tsis tseem ceeb ntawm dev paus. Thiab muaj pes tsawg yam uas peb tsis pom ib ncig, tau raug tshem tawm ntawm peb cov lus! Silence, tseeb, kub, qhov no yuav tsum tsis txhob nco qab nyob rau hauv neeg laus, tab sis niam txiv twb tau ceased mus zoo li no hais.