Yog tias tseem me nyuam tseem yau qhov teeb meem tseem ceeb rau cov niam txiv nws yog kev txuag nws txoj kev noj qab nyob zoo, ces thaum lawv tseem hluas lawv ntsib teeb meem kev tu ncua thiab rov kawm dua. Nyob rau hauv tsab xov xwm no, peb yuav xav txog kev tiv thaiv xws li ib qho kev tshwm sim hauv kev coj cwj pwm ntawm cov tub ntxhais hluas ua kev tsis ncaj ncees.
Rudeness yog qhov hnyav, kev sib tsoo thiab kev tsis zoo ntawm kev sib txuas lus nrog lwm tus neeg.
Teenage rudeness tej zaum yuav tsis ib txwm yuav manifested, tab sis tsuas yog qhia nyob rau hauv tej yam khoom:
- hauv tsev neeg;
- sawv cov neeg tuaj yeem, tshwj xeeb yog nyiaj laus, cov menyuam yau thiab cov poj niam;
- cov xibfwb lossis cov menyuam kawm ntawv.
Tej zaum ua rau cov hluas ua tsis ncaj ncees
- aggression yog ib qhov kev xav hauv nruab nrab, tshwm ntawm kev hloov hauv kev coj tus cwj pwm ntawm cov laus, cov cai los yog kev ua neej zoo, yog li tus tub hluas hais tawm nws tawm tsam qhov no;
- hnub nyoog muaj kev ntxhov siab - lub sij hawm no yog txuam nrog lub tswv yim ntawm "kev cuam tshuam ntawm tsis muaj peev xwm" - kev sib ntaus sib tua ntawm tus me nyuam tsis haum siab, vim li cas tus tub ntxhais hluas lub cev siv qhov kev tiv thaiv no tiv thaiv overexertion;
- nrhiav qhov ciaj ciam ntawm kev tso cai - lub ntsiab "neoplasm" ntawm kev loj hlob yog "kev nkag siab ntawm cov neeg laus," thiab lawv siv cov lus tsis zoo thiab kev ua tsis ncaj los ntes lawv thaj chaw, tiv thaiv txoj cai rau lawv tus kheej lub tswv yim;
- ib qho piv txwv ntawm cov niam txiv;
- tsis meej txog qhov tseeb ntawm lawv cov yeeb yam;
- tsis sib haum nrog cov phooj ywg lossis cov teeb meem nrog kev kawm - kev ua tsis ncaj yog siv los sim kom paub txog lawv cov teeb meem;
- tus cawv ntawm ib lub tuam txhab phem - raws li lub hauv paus ntsiab lus "Kuv zoo li txhua leej txhua tus lwm tus", yog li ntawd raws li tsis mus ua outcast;
- kev txuas hauv kev kawm - cov menyuam yaus uas raug siv los hais tsis tau thiab tsis mloog cov menyuam kawm ntawv preschool thiab tsev kawm ntawv, ua rau cov hluas - tsuas yog ua kom lawv txoj kev coj cwj pwm;
- tsis muaj txoj cai ntawm cov niam txiv - qhov no tshwm sim rau ntau lub hauv paus (kev poob haujlwm, ua cim muag, poob ntawm kev sib raug zoo, qhov muag, kev ua neej tsis zoo, thiab lwm yam).
Cov lus qhia rau cov niam txiv: ua li cas?
Qhov laj thawj ntawm qhov tshwm sim ntawm kev tsis ncaj ncees yog qhov ntau heev, tab sis koj tuaj yeem hloov qhov kev coj cwj pwm no siv cov lus qhia nram qab no:
- hloov koj tus cwj pwm (ua raws li kev hais lus thiab kev sib txuas lus hauv tsev neeg);
- tshem tawm cov kev sau ntawv ntawm kev sib txuas lus, pib mloog thiab lees txais lub tswv yim ntawm tus hluas, i.e. tsim kev sib raug zoo;
- calmly hnov mob rau kev tawm tsam ntawm rudeness ntawm tus tub hluas, tsis txhob indignant, tsis txhob qhia koj tsis meej pem, tab sis tsis quav ntsej lawv;
- hu nws tus cwj pwm tsis zoo, tsis muaj qhov hloov mus rau cwm pwm;
- Qhia tus me nyuam kom ntu tawm tsis pom tus cwj pwm tsis zoo thiab xa tawm cov kev paub hauv lwm daim ntawv;
- paub txog nws txoj cai tsis pub ywj siab (tsim nws lub hwj huam me me);
- coj kev ntsuas tawm tsam qhov tseeb tias nws swears nyob rau hauv ib zaug, kom txog rau thaum nws ua ib tug cwj pwm, piv txwv: nkag rau txim los yog cov ntaub ntawv them rau mats;
- piav qhia rau nws thaum koj tuaj yeem siv curses;
- thaum muaj hnub nyoog twg tsis pub saib tsis taus koj tus kheej, qhia tias koj yuav tsum raug saib tsis taus lossis koj yuav tsis hwm nws;
- txhawj xeeb nrog nws cov teeb meem, pab nws tawm ntawm kev daws, ntau zaus qhia tias koj hlub nws;
- Tsis txhob cia qhov tsis yooj yim, yog tias nws paub hais tias nws tsis muaj peev xwm ua kom tiav koj cov lus xav, nws yuav tsum tau tiv thaiv nrog kev ua siab tawv thiab kev ua phem;
- hauv tsev neeg yuav tsum muaj qee txoj cai ntawm kev coj cwj pwm rau txhua tus, thiab tsis yog rau nws, yog tias muaj kev zam rau ib tug neeg, peb yuav tsum tau sib tham txog qhov no;
- txawm tias tom qab sib cav sib ceg, qhia rau koj tus menyuam tias koj hlub nws, tab sis koj tseem yuav liam rau kev ua.
Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws hauv kev qhia cov tub ntxhais hluas yog xav kom nws nyiam nws lub neej kom tsis txhob nco cov kev hloov tseem ceeb thiab cia koj kev txuas nrog tus me nyuam tsis txhob tawg. Tom qab ntawd nws yuav tsis thuam koj los yog lwm tus neeg.