Kev sib cav sib ceg hauv kev sib txuas lus yog sib thooj, tab sis yog kev tsis sib haum xeeb tshwm sim tas mus li thiab rau txhua tus vim li cas, thiab tseem phem tshaj - tus neeg sib tw yog tus txiv neej uas lawv hlub, ces tus poj niam tsis tuaj yeem sib raug zoo nrog rau lub xeev no. Peb yuav tsum nrhiav kom tau ib txoj hauv kev kom txhob muaj kev sib cav sib ceg.
Yuav ua li cas kom tsis txhob sib cav nrog koj tus hlub?
Ua ntej, tsis txhob ntsiag to rau kev thuam, txhua tus cwj pwm yuav tsum tswj kom meej meej thiab tsis pub lawv tswj lawv tus kheej. Qhov thib ob, tsis txhob tawm tsam, cia koj tus txiv neej nkawv hais lus thiab ua tib zoo mloog nws. Nws yog tau hais tias nyob rau theem no qhov kev sib cav yuav los rau ntawm nws tus kheej. Thirdly, tsis txhob tuav koj cov lus thov rau koj tus kheej, qhia lawv rau koj tus khub, tab sis kuj nyob twj ywm thiab tsis muaj kev sib ncawg. Nws yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws uas qhov kev sib cav sib ceg yuav yog ib qho kev txwv tsis pub muaj kev to taub, uas yog daws tam sim ntawd. Cov no yog cov lus qhia yooj yim zoo nkauj, yuav ua li cas kom tsis txhob sib cav sib ceg thiab sib cav sib ceg, tab sis lawv ua hauj lwm.
Yuav ua li cas kom tsis txhob sib cav nrog nws tus txiv?
Nws paub tias tus tsov ntxhuav txoj kev sib nrauj yog vim qhov tseeb tias ob khub tsis pom zoo nrog cov cim. Tab sis qhov tseeb, qhov kev sib sau no txhais tau hais tias tib neeg tsuas yog nrhiav tsis tau ib txoj hauv kev los sib cav sib ceg. Tab sis qhov no tsis yog qhov nyuaj. Ua ntej, kev sib cav yuav tsum tsis txhob dhau qhov tsis muaj qhov tsis taus, nws yuav tsum txhawm rau txheeb xyuas thiab qhia cov laj thawj. Secondly, koj yuav tsum tsis txhob siv los siv koj tus txiv li ib tus "menyuam tub", ntxias tawm koj qhov mus ob peb vas thiab qaug zog. Thiab rau tej kis no tus txij nkawm yuav tsum raug kho nrog kev to taub thiab ua tib zoo mloog nws. Thirdly, tsis txhob nco txog yav dhau los tsis txaus siab, tsis txhob mus tshaj tawm teev tus kheej shortcomings, tsis txhob poob mus rau tag nrho cov lus thuam. Thiab kom tsis txhob sib cav sib ceg nrog nws tus txiv tshaj lij ib zaug thiab rau txhua tus, koj yuav tsum tau sim nyob twj ywm rau hauv txhua qhov teeb meem, qhia kev sib nrig sib pab thiab tsis tshua xav ua kom me me tsis zoo.