Vim li cas peb thiaj siv lub tswv yim tias ib tug txiv neej muaj kev paub txog orgasm ib txwm thiab tsis xaus thaum sib deev tsis tuaj yeem? Tom qab tag nrho, qhov no tshwm sim, thiab raws li kev xyaum qhia, tej teeb meem no tsis yog yooj yim. Qhia rau kuv tias yog vim li cas qhov teeb meem - yog hais tias ib tug txiv neej tsis xaus nws pw ua ke ntev, nws yuav tsum zoo siab, tab sis tsis xav txog dab tsi thiab ua li cas los kho qhov teeb meem no? Qhov tseeb yog nyob rau hauv cov teeb meem no, cov poj niam feem ntau yws hais tias lawv cov neeg koom tes tsis txaus siab heev. Tab sis nws tshwm sim, hmoov tsis, thiab vice versa. Yog li cia wb tawm vim li cas qhov no tshwm sim thiab yuav ua li cas yog tias ib tug txiv neej tsis tuaj yeem ua tiav ntev.
Vim li cas ib tug txiv neej tsis tau cum thaum lub sijhawm com?
Feem ntau cov poj niam, thaum pom tias tus txiv neej tsis tuaj yeem ua tiav, pib nrhiav qhov laj thawj ntawm lawv tus kheej. Qhov tseeb, thaum tsis muaj kev txaus siab, tus poj niam yuav ua txhaum, tab sis ntau zaus tshaj tsis yog nyob hauv ib tug txiv neej. Thiab yog tias koj muaj teebmeem los ntawm kev poob siab, nrog koj tus khub tham, tej zaum nws yog ib qho ntawm nws lub cev xwb. Tom qab tag nrho, qhov nyiaj thiab qhov ntev ntawm kev sib deev ib tug txiv neej xav tau yog nyob ntawm nws txoj cai kev sib deev. Tab sis yog hais tias ib tug ntev kev sib deev ua rau koj tus txiv neej tsis yog cov cai, ces tshaj li cov txheej xwm rau cov tsis muaj orgasm koj yuav tsum xav txog. Feem ntau lawv muaj raws li nram no.
- Kev siv cawv ntau heev yog qhov laj thawj uas yog vim li cas ib tug txiv neej tsis tuaj yeem ua tiav ntev. Feem coob ntawm cov txiv neej xav hais tias kom muaj kev sib deev zoo meej koj yuav tsum haus dej me ntsis ua ntej nws, lawv hais tias, qhov no yuav pab tau kev ywj siab thiab tso cai rau kev nthuav dav. Tej zaum nws yog, ib txhia tsuas yog haus me ntsis xwb, thiab nws yog qhov nyuaj rau tus txiv neej dhau mus ua kom tiav, vim kev kis tus kab mob ntawm lub hlwb thiab rov qab qeeb qeeb. Yog hais tias tib zaj dab neeg tau tshwm sim rau koj tus khub, ces koj yuav tsum tsis txhob ntshai, nws yog liam thiab yuav tau txais nws ntawm lub taub hau qaub ncaug. Tsuas sim tawm ntawm nws lub xeev ntawm cov txiaj ntsig tau rau koj tus kheej, nco ntsoov hauv kev xeeb ceem ntawm koj tus kheej tus poj niam orgasm yuav ua tau hnyav dua li ib txwm, tab sis vim yog qhov txawv rau koj, hom kev sib deev pom zoo nrog ceev faj.
- Qhov thib ob nrov tshaj plaws yog vim li cas ib tug orgasm rau ib tug txiv neej ua ib tug unattainable npau suav yog nkees, qhov kev nyuab siab thiab kev kho mob. Cov tshuaj tua kab mob ua rau lub cev ntaj ntsug thiab kev sib deev ua rau lawv muaj kev cuam tshuam. Yog li ntawd, yog tias koj tus khub siv sijhawm, tsis txhob xav yuam kev ntawm nws. Yog hais tias nws tsis ua tiav hauv txaj, nws yuav yog ib qho "txhaj tshuaj hauv taub hau." Zoo dua tuaj tos, thiab tus txiv neej, txaus siab rau koj kev saib xyuas thiab kev ua siab ntev, yuav pib ua haujlwm.
- Thiab feem ntau ib tug txiv neej tsis tau orgasm vim nws yog ib tug perfectionist, nws xav tau txhua qhov thiab txhua yam zoo tshaj plaws. Ntawd yog hauv txaj, nws sim ua kom lub siab loj, sim ua kom muaj tus khub no qhov zoo tshaj plaws. Tab sis qhov no yog qhov teeb meem - tus txiv neej yog heev rau lub tswv yim ntawm satisfying tus khub, thiab yog li ntawd nws tsis tuaj yeem mus txog orgasm nws tus kheej. Hauv qhov no, ib tug poj niam yuav tsum pab nws, hais tias nws yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws thiab qhia kuv tias koj orgasm tuaj yeem tsis tau tsuas yog nrog kev khaus khaus, piv txwv li, lub plhaub tiab ntawm cov yaus kauv yuav tsis muaj qhov tsis zoo. Yog tias tus khub tsis paub tias yuav ua li cas, muab nws piv txwv, ib tug txiv neej me me
tsis muaj peev xwm raug kev ntxias los ntawm hom poj niam masturbating. Thiab ua nws tsaug tsis yog nrog ib lo lus, tab sis kuj nrog ib tug puav pheej - ua tiav nws txoj kev ntshaw kev sib deev. - Yuav ua li cas yog tias ib tug txiv neej tsis tiav ntev, tab sis nws tsis muaj kev nyuaj siab, kev quav dej cawv, los yog cov cim qhia txog kev ua kom tiav, thiab koj tau ntsib teeb meem ntau dua? Ntawm no koj tuaj yeem ua tsis tau kev pab los ntawm ib tus kws kho mob tshwj xeeb, vim hais tias qhov ua rau tuaj yeem yog kab mob ntawm kev sib deev thiab endocrine systems, oncology, malformations thiab anomalies nyob rau hauv kev loj hlob ntawm genitourinary system. Tsis txhob ncua kev mus ntsib kws kho mob, vim hais tias tsuas yog nws muaj peev xwm teb tau lo lus nug yog vim li cas ib tug txiv neej tsis tau txais orgasm, thiab sau ntawv kho mob. Yog li, yog tias qhov teeb meem tshwm sim, yaum ib tus neeg uas koj hlub tuaj mus ntsib kws kho mob.