Cov tsev apartment qhov teeb meem, tsis raws li cov lus ntawm cov classic, piam tsis tsuas yog lub Muscovites. Feem ntau cov tsev neeg hluas raug yuam kom huddle hauv ib-chav tsev, los yog hauv chav nyob, nrog cov niam txiv thiab lwm tus neeg txheeb ze. Thaum ob leeg koj tsis mus qhov twg, vim li ntawd thiaj li yuav tsum tau kaw qhov rooj kaw kom txaus. Tiam sis thaum ib tug me nyuam yug nyob rau hauv ib tse neeg, nws ua tau ntau dua thiab nyuaj.
Tseeb, kev sib deev nyob hauv tsev neeg lub neej tsis yog qhov chaw kawg. Yog muaj ib qho kev txhaum rau zais - nws tsuas yog tsim nyog rau ib tsev neeg lub neej tag nrho, kev sib raug zoo ntawm tus txiv thiab tus poj niam thiab qib qis rau kev noj qab nyob zoo. Tab sis feem ntau cov niam txiv pom lawv tus kheej hauv ib qho xwm txheej uas muaj lub siab xav, thiab tsis muaj lub cib fim rau qhov kev paub txog, raws li nyob rau hauv ib tug chij qaum. Yog li, peb yuav tsum mus rau ntau lub tswv yim, txo qis lub neej kom ceev nrooj ua, nkaum hauv chav dej thiab chav ua noj, tos kom txog thaum tus me nyuam tsaug zog.
Nws yog qhov nyuaj rau cov neeg uas yuav tsum tau pw nrog ib tug me nyuam hauv ib chav, vim hais tias tus menyuam loj hlob tsaug zog ntau dua li tus me nyuam mos thiab muaj teeb meem los tsa, nrhiav cov niam txiv rau "qhov no." Cov neeg uas muaj lawv tus kheej yeej yooj yim dua, tab sis nws yog qhov tseem ceeb uas yuav tsum kaw qhov rooj mus rau lub tsev fuabtais, vim hais tias ib tug me nyuam tuaj yeem tuaj yeem tuaj rau niam txiv hauv plawv hmo ntuj vim nws pom ib tus npau suav phem heev, ntshai los yog hnov suab nrov txawv.
Qhov tseeb, xws li tej xwm txheej no lawv tus kheej raug mob, yog li ntawd, yog tias ua tau, lawv yuav tsum zam. Tab sis yog qhov no tshwm sim, nws yog qhov tseem ceeb rau kev kho kom raug, vim hais tias qhov no yuav cuam tshuam tus cwj pwm ntxiv ntawm koj tus me nyuam rau hauv kev sib deev ntawm kev ua neej. Los ntawm cov tshuaj tiv thaiv ntawm niam txiv nws nyob ntawm seb qhov no yuav ua rau kev raug mob rau tus me nyuam los yog sai sai no yuav tsis nco qab, zoo li qhov xwm txheej zoo tag.
Yog li, tus menyuam pom koj tom qab "qhov no," ua li cas?
- ntsuam xyuas qhov kev mob ntawm tus me nyuam - nyob ntawm nws hnub nyoog, nws yuav tau txais kev ntshai thiab quaj, ua neeg txaus siab thiab pib nug lossis rov qab mus pw tsaug zog;
- tsis txhob qw lossis cem me nyuam. Ua siab tus thiab tsis pom lub siab tias ib yam dab tsi txawv tshaj plaw tshwm sim;
- Hnav ris tsho thiab mus rau tus menyuam, nrhiav kom paub nws los ntawm nws vim li cas nws tau tsim;
- feem ntau ntawm cov menyuam ntawm kev sib deev zoo nkaus li kev ua phem, txiv qhov kev ua phem rau leej niam, yog li nws tseem ceeb heev uas yuav tsum tau qhia koj lub siab, thiab ua siab zoo li tsis muaj dab tsi tshwm sim. Yog tias tus niam txiv tsis txaj muag, ntsaj muag thiab txhawj xeeb, tus me nyuam tuaj yeem pom hauv qhov kev pom zoo ntawm lawv cov kev ntshai, uas yuav tshwm sim tom nws lub neej;
- yog tias tus menyuam pib nug cov lus nug, nws yog qhov zoo uas yuav tsum tawm mus kom txog thaum sawv ntxov. Cov lus piav meej yog nyob ntawm koj lub tswv yim. Yog tias koj tsis tau npaj txoj kev kawm rau kev kawm thiab kev sib deev , koj tuaj yeem xav txog ib yam dab tsi, piv txwv li, tias leej txiv tau ua rau nws lub ntsej muag, vim li ntawd lub suab thiab moans. Nws kuj hais tau tias nyob rau hauv txoj kev no, cov neeg laus uas sib yuav thiab sib hlub sib qhia lawv txoj kev xav rau ib leeg tsis tas mus ua cov ntsiab lus ntawm tus txheej txheem;
- nws tsis yog qhov tsim nyog rau suppress thiab tsis quav ntsej cov lus nug cov lus nug uas tshwm sim nyob rau hauv kev twb kev txuas nrog dab tsi tau pom. Cia tus menyuam tau txais cov lus teb los ntawm koj dua li ntawm cov phooj ywg ncig lub vaj los yog lub vaj;
- tsis txhob qhia rau tus menyuam tias koj tsuas yog "ua si", vim tias nws nkag siab qhov kev ua si yog qhov tseem ceeb rau cov me nyuam, yog li tus menyuam tuaj yeem ua txhaum rau koj vim nws tsis hu nws ua si nrog koj.
Qhov teeb meem no tuaj yeem yog kev ntxhov siab vim tsis tsuas yog rau cov crumbs, tab sis rau cov niam txiv. Tab sis lub siab xav zam nws tsis yog kev zam txim rau muab kev sib deev zoo rau nws. Tsuas yog ua lub tsev kawm ntawv lossis chav dej, hloov lub sij hawm ntawm kev nplij siab, piv txwv li, tom qab mus pw ua ke thaum pw tsaug zog, thaum pw tsaug zog ntawm ib tug me nyuam muaj zog, qhia nws mus khob qhov rooj ntawm nws niam nws txiv chav pw, ua thaum nws nyob hauv lub vaj los yog taug kev nrog pog.