Ib tug neeg paub hais tias nws hlub lub neej, nws lub qhov muag tau qhib ntau yam zoo nkauj uas yuav txhawb tau, tab sis kev hlub tseem yog tus tseem ceeb ntawm kev tsav tsheb thiab kev xav tau zoo tshaj plaws.
Qhov pom ntawm kev xav txog kev xav ntawm ib tug txiv leej tub thiab ib tug ntxhais
Cov poj niam thiab cov txiv neej pw, raws li koj paub, tuaj ntawm cov ntiaj teb sib txawv, qee zaum ntsia tib lub phenomenon hauv qab lub tsho sib txawv. Yuav kom tiv thaiv kev sib hlub ntawm ib tug txiv leej tub thiab ib tug ntxhais, tsis muaj dab tsi hindered, tsis pab rau qhov tshwm sim ntawm kev tsis pom zoo nyob rau hauv lawv cov keeb kwm romantic, ib tug yuav tsum mloog cov tswv yim ntawm psychologists rau cov teeb meem no.
Yog li, kev sib daj sib deev yeej muaj kev xav zoo , coj los ntawm kev xav, kev xav, uas tsis tau hais txog cov txiv neej uas nyiam mloog cov lus tseeb, kev hais lus ntawm tus neeg hais lus.
Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog tias kev sib hlub ntawm ib tug txiv leej tub thiab ib tug ntxhais tsis muaj zog tom qab tus neeg mob, thaum lub sij hawm muaj kev sib cav nws tus lover tsis yooj yim los piav rau ib tug nco qab ntawm ib tug neeg hlub, vim li cas nws tsis nplua no los yog tias.
Thaum zoo li no, thaum zoo li tsawg dua thiab tawg nrog kev npau taws, nws raug pom zoo kom "txias" thiab tsuas yog, nyob hauv ib qho hauv lub xeev xwb, rov qab mus rau qhov kev tsis sib haum xeeb. Koj yuav tsum paub nrog tus khub tham hauv nws yam lus. Piv txwv li, kom tus txiv neej hluas to taub nws tus hlub, nws yuav tsum ua raws li nws xav tau: "Tam sim no kuv hnov ntxhov siab. Kuv xav kom muaj tseeb, tab sis nws tsis yooj yim to taub yuav ua li cas. Thaum kuv hais tias kuv xav tau ntau tshaj ntawm koj txoj kev hlub, kuv tsis tau txhais hais tias koj tsis hlub kuv. Kuv tsuas xav kom koj puag kuv ntau dua (yog, kuv paub hais tias koj ua qhov no), thiab hais ntau qhov kev yoojyim. "
Txhua leej txhua tus, thiab ntau dua yog tias nws yog kev sib tham ntawm ob qho lus sib deev, tso nws cov ntsiab lus hauv txhua lo lus, thiab qee zaus txawm tias muaj kev sib cav sib ceg zoo heev vim hais tias nkawm niam txiv tsis tau thab li los qhia: "Kuv puas to taub koj yog? Raws li lub tswvyim no, koj txhais tias kuv ... ".