Lub hnub yug ntawm tus menyuam yog kev zoo siab rau tag nrho tsev neeg. Koj qhov txuj ci tseem ceeb me me yog qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws thiab zoo tshaj plaws. Tus menyuam loj hlob, thiab cov niam txiv pib pom tias nws twb muaj nws tus cwj pwm, qee yam tsis zoo, piv txwv:
- thumb siv;
- nipping lub tes;
- xaiv nyob hauv lub taub ntswg;
- rub los yog twisting plaub hau.
Vim li cas lawv tuaj?
Qhov ua rau kev coj cwj pwm phem hauv cov menyuam yaus yog ntau yam. Qee lub sij hawm lawv tshwm sim los ntawm txoj kev ntshaw tsis nco qab txog tus me nyuam los qog ib tug neeg. Yog li ntawd, nyob ze rau tus me nyuam yuav tsum ua ntej txhua tus saib xyuas lawv cov cwj pwm thiab tsis pub tus me nyuam yog vim li cas thiaj li luam tau koj cov khoom noj rau hauv qhov ntswg los yog qua cov tes.
Raws li cov menyuam lub siab xav, txhua tus menyuam qhov kev coj cwj pwm phem tshwm sim los ntawm qhov tsis txaus siab rau tus menyuam hauv tsev neeg. Cov crumbs tau nyob ntev mus ib leeg, tsis tshua muaj npaum li cas rau cov cwjmem, thaum nyuam qhuav ua los ntawm kuv niam lub mis, tsis xis nyob, bored thiab txawm ntshai. Yuav kom nws tus kheej nyob ua ke, tus me nyuam nrhiav nyiaj thiab nplij nws lub siab rau nws-nws ntiv tes nws tus ntiv tes, ntsiag to nws pob ntseg, xaiv tus puj ntaws, plays nrog nws lub cev pw ua ke.
Tus me nyuam tau siv los tswj nws tus kheej nrog kev ua ub ua no, uas maj mam ua ib tus cwj pwm phem. Qhov pib, tus me nyuam, yog li ntawd, consoles nws tus kheej nyob rau hauv leej niam tsis muaj, thiab ces, txawm tias leej niam yog nyob ze nws, nws twb xav ua nws tus kheej. Yog li obsessive cwj pwm yog tsim nyob rau hauv cov me nyuam, uas soothe ib tug me nyuam thaum nruab hnub, muab nws pw tsaug zog hmo ntuj, pab tshem kev ntshai.
Feem ntau xws li ib tus cwj pwm phem, xws li nqus ib tug ntiv tes, tshwm sim los ntawm kev paub tsis meej ntawm lub biorhythms ntawm lub hlwb. Kev nqus dej ua rau me nyuam tuaj yeem ua rau tus menyuam loj hlob zoo thiab yog tias nws tau qe ua ntej, nqus ib tug ntiv tes los yog txiv mis qhuav rau 3-4 xyoo yog qhov zoo rau cov menyuam yaus.
Nyob hauv ib qho nyuaj, muaj kev ntshai, kev ntxhov siab lossis kev poob siab, tus menyuam tuaj yeem ua ib yam khoom lossis khoom ua si thiab tsis nrog nws, nrhiav kev nplij siab thiab kev nplij siab los ntawm tuav qhov khoom hauv nws ob txhais tes. Feem ntau qhov no tshwm sim thaum tus menyuam pib taug kev hauv kindergarten, thiab leej niam tsis nyob ze, thiab tsuas muaj neeg txawv tebchaws. Maj mam, tus me nyuam tau ntsib nrog cov me nyuam thiab cov kws qhia ntawv thiab, yog tias muaj kev sib raug zoo nrog txhua tus neeg, ces tsis pom thiab xav tau "nws" khoom ua si los yog qhov khoom yuav ploj mus.
Cov me nyuam kawm qib Pre-school muaj peev xwm tsim tau cov cwj pwm phem, uas ua rau muaj kev sib haum xeeb zoo:
- shuffling nws ko taw thaum taug kev;
- rocking ntawm ib lub rooj zaum;
- siv cov lus-cab;
- tuav lub interlocutor los ntawm lub tes tsho los yog khawm;
- ntau nrawm dua;
- deb ntawm lub qhov muag ntawm tus interlocutor.
Nws tsis yog rau ib yam dab tsi uas tib neeg hais: koj sow tus cwj pwm - hla lub cim. Cov kev coj ua teeb meem ntawm cov menyuam yaus tshwm sim nrog cov nqi ntawm kev kawm thiab, sib txuas nrog ib leeg, ua tus qauv zoo rau tus menyuam. Yog li ntawd, nws tseem ceeb ua luaj rau kev tiv thaiv tsis zoo hauv cov menyuam yaus. Sib tham nrog tus me nyuam, nws nyiam ua txhua yam ntawm nws cov teeb meem, kev coj tsis ncaj thiab tsis zoo ntawm nws cov yeeb yam - qhov no yuav pab tus me nyuam kom tsis txhob pom qhov phem ntawm kev coj cwj pwm, tab sis yog hais tias lawv tau tshwm sim, lawv yuav pab daws tau lawv.
Yuav ua li cas nrog kev ua phem tsis zoo hauv cov menyuam yaus?
Unequivocally koj tuaj yeem teb tias kev rau txim thiab txwv tsis tuaj yeem pabcuam ntawm no. Kev tshem cov cwj pwm phem tsis yooj yim thiab lub sij hawm tuaj yeem siv ntau heev. Yog li, niam txiv yuav tsum tau ua siab ntev thiab pom tseeb tias tus menyuam yog tus tsim kev puas tsuaj rau cov hlua vim hais tias ntau cov av thiab microbes nyob rau hauv lawv, thiab tag nrho cov no tau txais mus rau hauv nws lub qhov ncauj. Ib tug me nyuam yaus xav txog ib zaj dab neeg txog tus ntiv tes-cov kwv tij, ib tug ntxhais hais tias ob txhais tes ntawm poj niam tom ntej yuav tsum zoo nkauj thiab zoo nkauj. Yog hais tias ib tug me nyuam nqus ib tug ntiv tes, ces kom rau txim thiab scold nws tsis paub - tsis muaj dab tsi yuav pab, nws yuav nqus nws twb secretly. Nws yog qhov zoo uas muab rau nws ntau npaum li sai tau, kom txhob cuam tshuam nws nrog nthuav kev ua si thiab kev ua si, los yog tsuas yog mus plhws lub crumbs. Yog tias tus me nyuam tus ntiv tes tas li nyob hauv qhov ntswg, qhov no yuav qhia tau tias qhov ntswg qhov hnoos thiab nws ua rau nws tsis xis nyob. Nws yog tsim nyog yuav tau mus ntsib kws kho mob rau tswv yim.
Zoo, kuv kuj tau hais txog qhov teeb meem no "txaus ntshai" li childish masturbation. Ntau tus menyuam yaus hauv kev yau yau yog koom nrog "qhov no" thiab txhua tus niam txiv yeej xav tsis thoob thaum nws pom tias nws tus menyuam mus kov nws tus kheej "nyob ntawd." Tiam sis nws yeej yog ib qho txaus ntshai rau peb cov neeg laus xwb, thiab tus me nyuam yaus ua nws tsis paub hlo li. Rau crumbs mus tshawb lawv cov qau ntshav yog li ntuj raws li kov lawv txhais tes, ceg, pob ntseg. Tab sis cov menyuam loj hlob tuaj yeem chwv lawv tus kheej twb paub zoo lawm, nws tuaj yeem muab rau lawv. Thiab ntawm no niam txiv yuav tsum ceevfaj: tsis txhob cia tus menyuam nyob hauv txaj ntev, tsis txhob ntxhua khaubncaws, tsis tu ncua ntawm tus qau ntawm lub cev kom tsis txhob muaj kev khaus thiab khaus.
Tsis txhob cem tus menyuam, cia nws paub tias nws ua dab tsi yog ntuj,
Ntawm lub plawv ntawm txhua qhov cwj pwm phem hauv cov menyuam yaus yog teebmeem ntawm lub hlwb. Nrog lawv sib ntaus yog tawm tsam tus me nyuam txoj kev ruaj ntseg, nws ntxhov siab. Cov neeg laus ua kom loj hlob tuaj ntawm cov me nyuam uas lawv hlub me ntsis thaum yau yau, tsis tshua muaj siab thiab xav txog lawv. Yog li ntawd, nws tseem ceeb ua luaj rau koj muaj kev thaj yeeb nyab xeeb thiab sib haum xeeb hauv tsev, thiab tom qab ntawd koj yuav kov yeej txhua yam kev txom nyem.