Sim quab yuam koj tus kheej thaum sawv ntxov mus ncuav dej txias. Yog tias ib tug neeg nyiam lub siab zoo siab ntawm lub cev, zoo siab, adrenaline, thiab pw tsaug zog raws li ib txhais tes yuav tshem, ces, tej zaum, nws yuav ua ib tug cwj pwm. Lwm qhov, vim lawv ntshai, ntshai thiab, hauv txoj cai, tsis nyiam ua dej num yuav ua tsis tau nws tus cuj pwm.
Yog li ntawd txoj kev hlub tsis tuaj yeem ua "ib tug cwj pwm xwb". Yog hais tias koj tsis tau nrog ib tug neeg, vam tias tsis muaj kev hlub, tsuas yog koj muaj nyob rau hauv ib tug cwj pwm, koj yog heev yuam kev.
Yuav ua li cas to taub kev hlub yog ib tug cwj pwm thiab seb tus qauv ntawm lo lus nug yog tseeb nyob rau hauv nws tus kheej - cia peb sim paub nws.
Hlub thiab luam yeeb
Cov neeg uas muaj kev quav tshuaj nicotine, qhov tseeb, yog cov neeg rau khoom ntawm lawv txoj kev lom zem. Lawv txoj kev vam khom yog vim muaj kev hlub ntawm kev lom zem, uas lawv tau ntsib los ntawm ib tug luam yeeb haus luam yeeb. Lub sij hawm zoo siab uas qhib lub pob tshiab, lub zog sib zog, tus cwj pwm tsis zoo, kev sib tham nrog ib tus neeg sib tham ... Tej lub sijhawm zoo rau tus txiv neej, nws nyiam haus luam yeeb. Lub sij hawm no yog ntau yam puas hawv dua li muaj sia. Tus kabmob no yoojyim rau txoj kev tsis kam haus luam yeeb, nws yog nws tus kheej zoo, uas tsis tuaj yeem hais txog lub hlwb.
Dab tsi ua tau qhov sib txawv ntawm kev sib txawv ntawm kev sib txawv thiab kev paub qhov txawv ntawm lawv yog ib lo lus nug ntawm cov neeg nyiam. Hlub tseem hlub. Nws tsis yog ib tug cwj pwm rau ib qho yooj yim vim li cas: nws yog ib qho tsis yooj yim sua tau siv rau tej yam uas tsis zoo thiab kev qias neeg rau peb. Thaum tus hlub tau dhau mus, qhov kev mob siab tau ploj mus, tus khub pib ua kom khaus, yog li ntawd raws li nws qhov kev tsis zoo tau raug - tus twg yuav tsis cia koj. Koj yuav mus nrhiav kev zoo siab nrog lwm tus neeg. Txwv tsis pub, koj yuav nyob twj ywm, tiam sis tsis yog vim cwj pwm. Koj tuaj yeem tsum tsis txhob tu me nyuam, ntshai tsam tsis tuaj ntsib tus neeg zoo dua thiab nyob ib leeg, koj tuaj yeem tuav tseg cov khoom siv, tab sis tsis yog tus cwj pwm. Feem ntau, nws tsuas yog kev zam txim rau.
Vim tias qhov kev ua cwj pwm ua tiav peb xav ua, nws txhais tau hais tias nws yuav yog ib qhov kev xav txog kev sib raug zoo ntawm txoj kev hlub. Kev hlub yuav dhau los ua ib tug cwj pwm thaum nws pom thawj zaug. Tus cwj pwm ntawm kev saib xyuas, koom hauv lub neej ntawm ib tus neeg hlub - peb tus cwj pwm yuav ua ib tug cwj pwm raws li kev hlub. Muaj qhov sib txawv ntawm qhov no. Yeej muaj cuab kav ua tau ib qho cwj pwm txawv thiab kev hlub tsis muaj peev xwm.
Ua lwm yam lus, kev hlub yog ib qho tsim nyog rau kev tsim kom muaj tus cwj pwm.