Tam sim no cov me nyuam yog tam sim no, txoj cai,
Yog tsis muaj kev ncaj ncees rau lawv,
Peb siv peb txoj kev noj qab haus huv,
Tab sis qhov no tsis muaj teeb meem rau lawv ...
Yu Entin. Song ntawm tus m / f "Bremen Musicians"
Nws tsis yooj yim rau cov niam txiv - tsis muaj leej twg yuav cam nrog qhov no. Qee zaum peb cov me nyuam teb rau peb txoj kev hlub thiab kev tu xyuas, zoo li nws zoo li peb, tsis txaus. Lawv lub siab, kev tawv ncauj, kev sib haum xeeb tej zaum kuj zoo li peb tsis muaj kev vam meej. Tab sis tom qab tas nrho, tsis muaj ib tug me nyuam twg tsis txuam nrog, thiab tag nrho cov tsev neeg siv sij hawm ntev los ntawm kev sib haum xeeb thiab lub sij hawm ntawm qhov nyuaj, teeb meem. Nws yuav tsum nco ntsoov hais tias xws li "swings" yog ib qho qauv ntawm txoj kev loj hlob.
Nrog thawj tus me nyuam muaj kev ntxhov siab, niam txiv feem ntau ntsib thaum ntxov - thaum tus me nyuam muaj hnub nyoog 1 xyoos (lub hnub nyoog ntawm nws qhov kev ua txhaum yuav txawv ntawm 9 lub hlis mus rau 1.5 xyoo). Yuav luag tag nrho cov me nyuam yav tom ntej mus txog thaum muaj kev ntxhov siab nyob rau hauv 3 xyoos, 7 xyoo thiab, ntawm chav kawm, nyob rau hauv kev loj hlob. Tag nrho cov sij hawm tsis yooj yim yog txuam nrog kev hloov ntawm tus me nyuam mus rau theem tshiab ntawm kev ywj pheej, kev loj hlob: nyob rau hauv 1 xyoo tus me nyuam pib taug kev ntawm nws tus kheej, hauv 3 xyoos - dhau los ua ib tus neeg sab nrauv interlocutor, thiab lwm yam. Cov kev txawj ntse tshiab thiab lub sijhawm yuav tsum ua kom pom los ntawm tus menyuam, kom nyob hauv nws lub taub hau - nws yog qhov tseeb tias tsuas yog thaum muaj tsawg zaus rau txoj haujlwm no thiab ua rau tsis mob.
Qhov ua rau muaj teebmeem 7 xyoo
Niaj hnub no peb yuav tham txog cov teeb meem ntawm cov me nyuam 7 xyoo. Raws li tau hais lawm, qhov teeb meem ntawm 7 xyoo ntawm cov me nyuam, zoo li lwm yam, muaj nws tus kheej vim li cas. Nyob rau thawj qhov chaw, qhov teebmeem no yog txuam nrog kev tsim ntawm tus menyuam tus kheej lub npe. Tam sim no koj tus me nyuam tsis yog ib tug tub, ib tug tub xeeb ntxwv, thiab lwm yam. Tab sis kuj yog ib tug tub kawm ntawv, ib tug tub kawm ntawv. Nws muaj lub luag haujlwm rau pejxeem nrog nws cov cai thiab lub luag haujlwm. Tam sim no nws yuav tsum tsim kev sib raug zoo nrog cov phooj ywg nws tus kheej, cov kws qhia ntawv. Nyob rau hauv nws entourage yuav tshwm sim, ntxiv rau cov niam txiv, cov ntaub ntawv pov thawj tshiab (cov xib fwb). Nws yuav ua rau thawj zaug tau txais kev ntsuam xyuas txog nws qhov peev xwm (tsev kawm ntawv cov npe), tsis tau koom nrog kev pom zoo ntawm niam txiv lossis tsis pom zoo ntawm tus cwj pwm. Nws yuav tsum ua kom muaj ntau yam kev tshawb nrhiav, tsis txhob hais txog qhov tau txais kev paub tshiab hauv cov tshooj lus. Nyob rau hauv qhov chaw ntawm qhov kev ua si raws li ib qho tseem ceeb ua los ntawm kev kawm kom ras. Tag nrho cov no ua rau kev hloov hauv kev xav thiab kev paub txog tus kheej, kev rov ntsuam xyuas ntawm qhov tseem ceeb, qhov hloov ntawm qhov kev npaj ua ntej.
Cov cim qhia ntawm lub ntsoog 7 xyoo
Thaum koj tus menyuam muaj hnub nyoog 7 lossis 8 xyoo, thiab tejzaum nws, thaum muaj hnub nyoog 6 xyoo, koj yuav pom nws tus cwj pwm qhia meej txog qhov teeb meem ntawm 7 xyoo. Ib qho teeb meem uas tsis muaj kab mob tshwm sim ntawm 7 xyoo, txawm li cas los xij, tej yam kev mob tshwm sim. Qhov tseem ceeb ntawm tus cwj pwm ntawm tus me nyuam muaj teeb meem txog 7 xyoo yog qhov pom ntawm artificiality, deliberateness, antipathy, manicuring. Koj tus menyuam tuaj yeem pib hais lus tsis sib thooj, piv txwv li, nrawm heev, lub suab, kev hloov kev hloov, thiab lwm yam. Cov me nyuam qhov kev mob ploj lawm: tam sim no lub txiaj ntsim sab nraud tsis tuaj yeem ua rau lub hauv paus, qhov tseeb, qhov xwm txheej tam sim ntawd, raws li tshwm sim hauv preschooler. Ntawm qhov kev tshwm sim thiab qhov tshwm sim rau nws, lub caij ntawm kev sib cav "wedges nyob rau hauv", ib qho kev txawj ntse tuaj tshwm. Tus me nyuam pib paub qhov txawv sab nraud thiab sab hauv, nws pib "zov" nws lub ntiaj teb sab hauv,
Yuav ua li cas kov yeej lub 7 xyoo?
Yuav ua li cas thaum koj tus me nyuam muaj teeb meem txog 7 xyoo? Lub tswv yim tseem ceeb tshaj plaws nyob rau hauv txhua qhov teeb meem yog tswj hwm tus kheej. Yog, nws yog qhov nyuaj, thaum nws zoo li tus me nyuam nyob ib ncig ntawm lub moos, zoo li yog hais tias sim tau tsav tsheb cov niam txiv ntawm lawv tus kheej. Tab sis txawm li cas los niam txiv txoj hauj lwm tseem ceeb nyob rau hauv qhov teeb meem no tsis yog kom "tua hauv yoov", ua kom qhov kev nplua nuj ntawm qhov muag thiab qhov hnyav. Tsis txhob ua kom tus me nyuam xaj xaim, tab sis, muab tso rau hauv qhov chaw, sim tsis txhob cia koj tus kheej tawg, npau taws. Nco ntsoov tias qhov teeb meem yog ib ntus, thiab qhov tsis zoo ntawm koj tus me nyuam yog qhov rov qab ntawm qhov kev hloov ntawm nws tus kheej, nws txoj kev loj hlob.