Txij thaum ancient sij hawm, dawb xim yog txuam nrog ib yam dab tsi zoo, thiab dub, ntawm qhov tawm tsam, symbolized phem, teeb meem, txaus ntshai, thiab lwm yam. Nws muaj peev xwm yuav xaus lus tias txhua yam kev phem hauv lub ntiaj teb yog txuam nrog xim dub, piv txwv li, dub khawv koob, dub khij, lwm yam.
Dab tsi yog xim dub hauv kev xav?
Nyob rau hauv qhov kev tshawb fawb no, cov xim no yog ob-nqi, tab sis tsis muaj xim tsis zoo. Feem ntau cov xim dub ntawm cov kws kho kev puas siab puas ntsoog yog txuam nrog rigidity, force thiab authoritarianism. Tias yog vim li cas qhov xim zoo tshaj nyob hauv kev ua lag luam ib cheeb tsam, qhov twg muaj zog tshaj plaws. Txawm tias cov kws kho mob, hais txog qhov dub txhais tau li cas, qhia tias nws yog lub cim ntawm qhov kev phom sij thiab kev ua phem uas hides qab lub plhaub. Lub hlwb ntawm no xim yog raws li kev nplij siab, lub neej ntawm ib txhia tsis thiab nyob rau hauv kev txaus siab ntawm infinity.
Tam sim no peb kawm tau xim dab tsi hauv cov khaub ncaws thiab lwm yam khoom siv niaj hnub siv. Nws ntseeg tias cov neeg uas nyiam qhov xim no, yog cov tswv cuab ntawm qhov xwm txheej loj thiab lawv xav tau ntawm lwm tus. Hauv lub neej, lawv pom lawv cov kev ceev faj thiab kev khi.
Ua tsaug rau lawv lub zog, xws li cov neeg muaj peev xwm ua tiav lawv cov hom phiaj. Dub lovers, tis ntawm cov duab ntawm ib tus neeg muaj zog, ua tau thiab raug kev txom nyem vim yog kev tsis sib haum. Nrhiav dab xim dub plaub hau, khaub ncaws thiab lwm yam khoom txhais tau tias, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb hais tias cov kiv cua ntawm cov xim no yog cov tswv ntawm qhov kev pom zoo. Xws li cov neeg muaj lub nplhaib ntuj, uas lawv muaj peev xwm txaus siab rau lawv tus kheej zoo. Psychologists ntseeg tias cov neeg uas niaj hnub ua neej siv siv xim dub, xav tau kev tiv thaiv thiab to taub. Feem ntau dub yog ib txoj hauv kev los tiv thaiv koj tus kheej thiab nkaum ntawm qee qhov teeb meem. Cov teeb meem ntawm cov lovers dub muaj xws li lawv lub caij nyoog rau kev nyuaj siab, uas feem ntau muaj tus xeeb ceem .