Feem ntau yog qhov pom tias cov neeg quav yeeb quav tshuaj yog qhov yooj yim kom pom. Qhov tseeb, kev siv yeeb siv tshuaj hloov tus neeg, thiab hloov nws kiag li: pib nrog cov cwj pwm thiab tus cwj pwm , xaus nrog tsos. Tab sis tseem tsis tas hloov cov kev hloov no tshwm sim tam sim ntawd. Tab sis qhov ua ntej kev siv tshuaj yaj yeeb yog pom, ntau qhov yuav tau tshem ntawm nws. Txij li thaum nyob hauv lub ntiaj teb niaj hnub no tsis muaj kev tiv thaiv los ntawm kev siv yeeb tshuaj thiab "nyas" rau lawv los ntawm qhov tsis zoo, txawm tias ib tug neeg paub tab paub zoo, nws yuav tsum paub txog qee cov kev paub txog kev quav yeeb tshuaj kom pab tau koj cov txheeb ze lossis cov neeg uas koj paub, yog tias muaj xwm txheej phem tshwm sim rau lawv .
Yuav ua li cas thiaj paub tus neeg siv tshuaj yeeb tshuaj?
- Tsa . Ua ntej tshaj plaws, nws tsim nyog txaus siab rau kev hloov hauv kev xwm txheej thiab kev coj cwj pwm. Nws yog tseeb tias tib neeg muaj peev xwm hloov tau, tab sis tsis muaj cov kev hloov no tshwm sim sai thiab dheev, tsis muaj ib qho laj thawj. Yog li ib qho ntawm cov cim qhia txog kev siv tshuaj yaj yeeb quav tshuaj yog qhov kev hloov ntawm kev hloov ntawm kev hloov ntawm ib tus neeg: tom qab ntawd nws zoo siab hlo, tom qab ntawd nws tseem tab tom qaug zog thiab tsis xav ua, ces nws hlub tag nrho lub ntiaj teb dua. Kuj yuav tsum tau ceev faj txog ntau txoj kev hlub, hauv particular, yog tias ib tug neeg feem ntau kuj ywm thiab rho tawm. Qhov no yog qhov tseem ceeb ntawm kev paub txog kev quav yeeb quav tshuaj uas siv cov nroj tsuag, vim hais tias nws pheej muab cov nyhuv. Ib tug neeg pib siv zog rau lub cev, nws tus kheej qhia nws txoj kev hlub, tsis yog rau cov neeg paub tshwj xeeb, luag nyav heev thiab zoo li ntawd.
- Sab nrauv cov cim . Feem ntau, cov neeg quav yeeb tshuaj tsis tso siab rau lawv cov khaub ncaws, hairstyle thiab lwm yam. Lawv tuaj yeem tawm mus nyob hauv txoj kev hauv cov av, cov khaub ncaws hnyav, qhov no siv rau cov neeg uas siv los ua kev xyuam xim. Tsis tas li ntawd, yog tias ib tug neeg raug ntes, nws nyiam ua khaub ncaws hnav ntev, txawm tias thaum lub caij sov. Nws tsim nyog them nqi rau qhov muag: tom qab noj ib koob, lawv khob thiab tus tub ntxhais kawm ntawv nthuav dav lossis sib cog lus. Feem ntau, cov paib sab nraud tuaj yeem pab ua kom paub txog kev quav yeeb quav tshuaj, vim haus tshuaj yeeb quav tshuaj
nrog kev ua neej, zais lawv txoj kev vam khom, feem ntau bypass cov cov ces kaum. - Kev sib raug zoo . Feem ntau, cov neeg quav yeeb tshuaj muaj kev hloov loj hauv lawv lub voj voog: cov qub kev sib tawg thiab tshiab "phooj ywg ntawm kev txaus siab" tshwm. Hauv qhov no, kev sib raug zoo nrog cov niam txiv, tsev neeg, tag nrho cov neeg txheeb ze feem ntau raug ua txhaum. Tej zaum yuav muaj teeb meem hauv tsev kawm ntawv los yog tom chaw ua haujlwm, kev nco thiab kev ua haujlwm tsis zoo los ntawm kev siv tshuaj.
- Kev noj qab haus huv . Qhov tseeb, kev siv yeeb tshuaj tsis tuaj yeem pab, tiam sis cuam tshuam rau koj kev noj qab haus huv. Cov cim tseem ceeb uas pom tau tias muaj qhov muag tsis pub muaj qhov muag: tawm hws, cuam tshuam kev pw tsaug zog, noj zaub mov ntau dua los yog nws tsis tuaj yeem ua tiav, tawv nqaij thiab tawv nqaij, cov plaub hau tsis zoo thiab cov rau tes.