Tshaj hauv nws lub neej, tej zaum, paub txhua tus poj niam thiab tej thaum yav dhau los cov kev sib raug zoo tsis nco qab ntev ntev, kev tsav tsheb hauv kev nyuaj siab. Yuav kom pab tau koj tus kheej nrog kev poob siab tsawg los hais goodbye rau yav dhau los, koj yuav tsum tau muab tswv yim txog kev yuav hnov qab kev hlub . Yuav pib nrog, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom paub tias dab tsi tshwm sim thiab to taub tias nws yog yav dhau los thiab ib tug zoo nkauj yav tom ntej. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb rau kev ntsuam xyuas qhov teeb meem, kos cov lus xaus thiab txav mus rau tom ntej.
Yuav ua li cas tsis nco qab txog kev hlub dhau los?
Tus yeeb ncuab tseem ceeb ntawm cov poj niam nyob rau hauv tej lub sijhawm yog kev xav uas tsis pub tus qub lover tsis nco qab. Nyob rau tib lub sijhawm, nws yuav tsum tau hais tias feem ntau hauv kuv lub taub hau tsuas yog nco zoo tuaj thiab, ntawm kev xav ntawm psychologists, qhov no yog ib qho yuam kev. Nws yog qhov pom zoo, ntawm qhov tsis sib xws, los saib cov kev sib raug zoo los ntawm qhov tsis zoo, uas yuav ua rau nws paub meej tias qhov kis tau zoo tsuas yog. Tawm koj tus kheej rau kev xav hu lossis sau ib tus qub lover.
Nrhiav kom paub yuav ua li cas thiaj li tsis nco qab kev hlub, nws yog tsim nyog muab tswv yim tshaj plaws ntawm psychologists - pom koj tus kheej ib txoj hauj lwm uas yuav enthrall thiab noj tag nrho cov kev xav. Qhov no tuaj yeem ua haujlwm zoo, nyiam ua haujlwm, nyeem ntawv, thiab lwm yam. Txhawm rau cuam tshuam, nws pom zoo kom hloov qhov teeb meem thiab mus rau ib qho chaw twg. Yog hais tias koj siv sijhawm ib leeg, ces koj yuav tsis nco qab kev hlub qub, vim kev tu siab tu siab yuav npog zoo li lub npas snowball. Ib theem tseem ceeb ntawm kev "rov ua" yog txawv txav. Tsis txhob poob siab rau koj tus kheej thiab mus rau ib qho chaw zoo nkauj, thiab nws yuav tuaj yeem khaws ib daim duab tshiab uas yuav muab koj tus kheej tso siab rau thiab cia koj mus tau zoo mus tom ntej. Yog tias muaj kev ntxhov siab, cov kws kho mob pom zoo kom xav tau lawv tus kheej, thaum tua tus kheej ua npau suav. Qhov no yuav cia koj mus kom tau tus nqi siab uas yuav tsum tau ua kom rov qab tau lub siab ntsws.
Tsis muaj teeb meem li cas trite nws yuav sound, qhov zoo tshaj plaws tus pab cuam nyob rau hauv qhov teeb meem no yog lub sij hawm. Nws yog qhov tsim nyog yuav tsum tau tso ntawm qhov teeb meem thiab txav raws li tam sim no yam tsis tas tig rov qab.