Ib hnub nrog ib tug txiv leej tub, thiab tshwj xeeb tshaj yog cov thawj ib, yog qhov exciting rau txhua tus ntxhais, tom qab tag nrho nws nyob ntawm nws seb kev sib raug zoo yuav pib li cas. Yog li cas koj npaj rau thawj hnub nrog ib tug txiv leej tub, yuav ua li cas coj zoo rau nws, koj yuav ua li cas, thiab ua li cas tsis ua? Hais txog yuav ua li cas tsis mus lwj thawj hnub, peb mam li tham hnub no.
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Thaum twg los xij, peb tau saib xyuas cov khaub ncaws ntau, thiab thawj hnub tsis yog kev zam. Dab tsi los hnav rau lub rooj sib tham, yog li ntawd tus txiv leej tub nyiam thiab tsis zoo li sab plhu rau nws? Ntawm chav kawm, peb xav ua kom tau ntxim hlub, tab sis kev sib deev tsis yog feem ntau qhib ob txhais ceg thiab hauv siab. Nyob rau thawj hnub, tus txiv leej tub yuav nicer twv koj cov ntaub ntawv nyob rau hauv daim ntaub ntws - nws yuav qhia txog cov cheeb tsam, thiab nws yuav tsis pom ntau. Feem ntau, yuav tsum xaiv khaubncaws kom yoojyim, tabsis yog tias koj xav tau koj lub meej mom. Tab sis nws tsis tas yuav poob mus rau lwm yam huab, txawm qhov zoo nkauj tshaj plaws daim duab yuav tsis adorn lub monastic attire, yog li ntawd nws yuav tsis tau siv ntau ntawm ntxiv hnav ris tsho. Thiab ntawm chav kawm, koj lub vestments yuav tsum thim hnub tim ntawm lub rooj sib tham. Pom zoo, nws tsis zoo kiag li rau lub picnic, hnav khaub ncaws rau yav tsaus ntuj hnav ris tsho thiab saum kev siab khov.
Ntawm kev ua kom tiav, qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws ntawm no tsis yog ua kom sib zog. Nws yog qhov zoo dua los xaiv ib qho duab uas tsis muaj kev txwv. Nws tsis yog tsim nyog ua ib qho kev ua kom nruj heev los yog ua kom muaj xim rau xim nrog cov xim lacquer. Tam sim no koj txoj hauj lwm tsis yog yuav tsum tau kov yeej tus txiv leej tub nrog nws txoj kev ci ntsa iab (yog tias nws hu koj ua ib hnub, ces koj tawm tsam nws twb dhau lawm), ntau npaum li cas rau convince nws tias nws yog nthuav siv sijhawm nrog koj, yuav tsum yeej xwb nrog koj lub sijhawm ntawm kev sib txuas lus.
Yuav ua li cas coj tus cwj pwm thaum ntsib ib tug txiv leej tub?
Yuav hais li cas rau thawj hnub, tswv yim dab tsi yuav muaj? Muaj qee txoj cai ntawm kev coj cwj pwm thiab ib tus ntawm lawv - ib tug ntxhais yuav tsum tsis txhob dais ib hnub ntawm nws qhov kev paub thiab teeb meem, koj tseem tsis paub sib tau zoo, thiab yog li koj zoo tshaj tawm txoj kev zoo siab thiab qhov zoo. Tom qab tag nrho, koj yog cov ntxim nyiam kawg rau kev sib txuas lus nrog ib tus neeg uas luag nyav ntawm koj kindly thiab tsis txhob sim thauj koj nrog koj cov teeb meem.
Yuav thov dab tsi rau thawj hnub tim? Ntawm chav kawm, dab tsi koj yeej xav nyob rau hauv. Nws tsis yooj yim rau kev ua si ib qho paj, thiab hauv tsib los kaum feeb xws li theatre obers ob leeg. Yog li, sim sib tham txog cov ncauj lus uas koj thiab koj tus neeg xav tau tham txog. Thiab ua zoo dev tom cov lus qhuab qhia ntau rau koj qhov, vim peb paub tias dab tsi, nrog rau tag nrho lawv lub zog, txiv neej yog cov tsis muaj zog. Yog li, peb xav hais lus ncaj ncees (ib tug ntxhais nrog tus tub ntxhais muaj lub siab nyiam thiab muaj lub siab xav yeej), tab sis tsis muaj kev thuam tus interlocutor. Thiab muaj, tsis nco qab txog vagaries - ob peb zaug tus txiv leej tub yuav muab rau koj yog tias koj muaj kev cuam tshuam, tiam sis qhov nagging yuav tsis kho koj, los yog nws yuav ntxiv kev xyiv fab.
Feem ntau cov menyuam ntxhais xav paub seb nws puas tsim nyog hnia lossis txawm pw nrog ib tug txiv leej tub rau thawj hnub. Tau kawg, nws tseem rau koj, thiab tej zaum tus txiv leej tub yuav nthuav rau koj heev npaum li nws hais tias nws xav mus rau kev sib raug zoo dua. Tab sis nws yog zoo dua tsis ua li ntawd. Thiab tus taw tes ntawm no tsis yog coj ncaj ncees (tab sis yog tias lawv muaj zog, lub tswv yim ntawm kev sib raug zoo ntawm thawj hnub yuav tsis tuaj saib koj), tab sis nyob rau hauv lub txiaj ntsim ntawm tus txiv neej txoj kev xav. Txiv neej los ntawm qhov yog neeg tua tsiaj, kov yeej. Thiab yog tias nws paub txog qhov kev tiav tiav hauv thawj lub rooj sib tham, ces tom ntej no yuav tsis ua raws li. Vim li cas, tom qab tag nrho cov haujlwm tau muab tso ua tiav lawm thiab tiav lawm?
Feem ntau tseem ceeb - ua kom ntuj. Koj tsis tas yuav luam tus cwj pwm los ntawm koj tus yeeb yam los yog tus cwj pwm ntawm koob (phau ntawv, manga), koj txawv, thiab nws zoo heev. Nco ntsoov tias ruam npaum li cas ib tug neeg zoo li thaum nws sim ua
Leej twg them nyiaj rau thawj hnub? Ntawm no yog txhua yam yooj yim, raws li cov cai ntawm cov lus qhia, tus neeg caw tau them. Tab sis yog tias qhov kev txiav txim siab mus rau qhov twg yog qhov kev sib nrauj (cov kab lus "Kuv caw koj" tsis tau), ces txhua tus yuav tau them rau lawv tus kheej.
Nco ntsoov, kev ua yuam kev rau thawj hnub yog ob leeg ntxhais thiab tub. Thiab yog hais tias tom qab lub rooj sib tham muaj tsis muaj kev sib txuas, tsis txhob kiam koj tus kheej, tej zaum nws tsis yog koj tus txiv neej.