Nug seb yuav npaj tus me nyuam chav rau ib tug tub, koj yuav tsum mloog zoo rau ntau lub ntsiab lus tseem ceeb.
Yuav ua li cas npaj ib chav rau ib tug tub?
Ua ntej tshaj plaws, tus tsim ntawm chav yuav tsum sib haum mus rau lub hnub nyoog ntawm tus tub thiab nws yog yooj yim los hloov, nyob ntawm seb nws hnub nyoog raws. Yog li, nws tsim nyog muab qhov kev xav rau cov rooj tog ntau tus, nrhiav ib lub ces kaum rau cov khoom siv ua kis las (nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv huab, ua khoom nruab nrab yam tsawg kawg hauv Swedish phab ntsa) thiab npaj qhov chaw rau kev tsim tau yav tom ntej tau yooj yim siv los ua haujlwm (tsev kawm ntawv). Xaiv qhov xim tswv yim thiab tsim ntawm cov phab ntsa ntawm chav tsev ntawm tus tub, nws tsis yog qhov yuav tsum tau mus rau blindly ua raws li cov tsim stereotypes:
- xiav thiab xiav xim - feem ntau "boyish". Nrog ib qho kev nplua mias ntawm cov xim no, chav yuav raug txias thiab tsis khab seeb. Nws yog cov tswv yim zoo dua los xaiv cov xim ntawm cov keeb kwm yav dhau los, txawm tias cov xim daj ( xim daj , txiv kab ntxwv, emerald) kuj pom tau tias yog ib qho chaw kaj thiab muab chav nyob ntau qhov "nyob";
- ib daim duab ntawm phab ntsa yog lub tshuab ntaus ntawv xwb. Tsis yog qhov tseeb tias koj tus me nyuam yuav nyiam ua qhov txheej txheem no. Daim duab yuav tsum ua kom pom tus menyuam nyiam, tsis yog nws niam nws txiv.
Nco ntsoov xaiv cov khoom xov, rooj tog, textiles rau tus menyuam chav, saib xyuas kev siv cov ntaub ntawv thiab cov khoom siv hauv cov chav hauv chav ua noj, yog tias lawv tsis tu los sis ntxuav.
Qee zaum cov lus nug tshwm sim seb puas yuav tsim ib chav rau ib tug me nyuam tub? Unequivocally, koj tsis tau teb nws. Tus menyuam mos liab xav tau kev pab tu menyuam mos lub sijhawm. Yog li, nws yog qhov kev xav thiab yooj yim, kab tias, los kho cov me nyuam kaum tsev nyob hauv niam txiv lub chav pw. Txawm hais tias nyob rau hauv qee thaj teb chaws (hauv Fabkis, piv txwv li) cov menyuam yaus tsis tuaj yeem nyob hauv ib chav. Kev xaiv yog koj li.
Tsim tus menyuam qhov chaw rau tus tub hluas
Tus menyuam tub hluas ntxhais hluas, uas nkag mus rau hauv lub hnub nyoog yaus, yuav xav tau tus neeg tsim "ntau tus neeg" hauv chav. Thiab tus qauv tsim ntawm chav tsev rau ib tug tub tsis tuaj yeem ua rau tsis sib haum nrog cov niam txiv, nrog rau kev sau npe ntawm koj tus menyuam. Kev kho kom zoo nkauj ntawm cov me nyuam chav rau tus tub-tub hluas tuaj yeem ua tau rau hauv kev sib txawv ntawm cov chav kawm - cov qauv uas tsis tshua meej heev, kev tsim qauv tshiab los yog thematic, tab sis txhua zaus, koj yuav tsum ua tib zoo xyuas qhov chaw kawm ntawm ntau thaj chaw thiab saib xyuas lawv cov teeb pom kev zoo.
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