Nws hloov tawm cov khoom siv thiab kev txhawb zog, xws li "5 cov kauj ruam rau kev sib raug zoo ntawm kev sib raug zoo" los yog "10 txoj cai ntawm lub neej zoo siab hauv kev sib yuav" - qhov no tsis yog txhua lub tswv yim ntawm Internet psychologists los yog freelancers rau kev pub niam txiv!
Koj yuav tsis ntseeg nws, tab sis 130 xyoo dhau los Anton Chekhov nws tus kheej tau ua "Qhia rau cov uas xav mus sib yuav" thiab tau ceeb toom hais tias nws lub tswv yim tsis nyob txhua qhov:
"Cov txiv hmab txiv ntoo ntawm ib lub hlwb, tab sis nws yog qhov quintessence ntawm txhua yam existing oracles, physiognomies, cabalistics thiab ntev sib tham nrog tej tus txiv neej thiab competent keepers ntawm kev cob qhia kev qhuab qhia!"
Thiab txawm ntau - tus saib los ntawm tus saib xyuas nws qhov kev xav ntawm nws tsab xov xwm los ua ib tug txiv neej daim card, lub ntsiab lus uas twb tau mob lub siab thiab xav tau lub hlwb loj heev, uas peb (poj niam) tsis muaj peev xwm:
"... ces kuv nug cov txiv, cov txiv tsev, cheeb tsam saib xyuas thiab lwm yam. saib tias cov poj niam thiab cov ntxhais ntawm tsab ntawv no tsis nyeem! "
Pleases ib yam - hauv tsev neeg lub neej ntawm cov classic, tsis tau, nws pom ntau zoo thiab zoo sab, thiab nws pom ntau nqe lus pov thawj:
"Yog hais tias nws tsis yog rau nws (tsev neeg lub neej), nws cov ntxhais yuav nyob tag nrho lawv lub neej nyob rau hauv lawv cov caj dab ntawm lawv cov txiv thiab ntau cov kws lij choj yuav zaum tsis muaj mov ci, txij thaum ntawd los yuav tsis muaj kev sib yuav. Tshuaj qhia tias bachelors feem ntau tuag vwm, cov txij nkawm tuag ua ntej lawv poob lawv lub siab. Ib tug ntxhais qhev khi rau ib tug bachelor, thiab ib tug poj niam sib yuav. Kev sib yuav tseem yog qhov zoo rau nws kev nkag mus. Koj muaj peev xwm yuav txiv neej nplua nuj, txom nyem, dig muag, hluas, laus, noj qab nyob zoo, muaj mob, Lavxias, Suav ... Tsuas yog kev zam txim xwb thiab kev siab ntsws, neeg ruam, boobies thiab nyuj tuaj yeem yuav ntau npaum li lawv txaus siab ... "
Huag, cov ntxhais, yog koj xav tias cov txiv neej niaj hnub no muaj kev sib ntxub thiab kev muag khoom, thiab dov koj ob lub qhov muag, nco ntsoov vov kev sib hlub ntawm kev hlub rau koj nyiam heroes ntawm romantic novel, ces npaj koj tus kheej rau ib feem ntawm kev chim siab. Rau txawm Chekhov, nyob rau hauv kev tshawb ntawm txoj kev hlub ntawm tag nrho lub neej, ntseeg tau pom zoo them sai sai tsis rau peb lub ntiaj teb sib sib zog nqus, tab sis primitively thiab banally - mus tsos!
"Them sai sai rau tus ntxhais, them nyiaj rau txhua tus kom pom, rau qhov uas pom tau tias yog tus neeg ntawm tus cwj pwm. Nyob rau hauv tsos, paub qhov txawv: xim plaub hau thiab qhov muag, qhov siab, kev voj voog thiab cim tshwj xeeb. Los ntawm cov xim ntawm cov plaub hau, cov poj niam raug muab faib ua blondes, brunettes, xim av-haired, thiab hais txog. "
Zoo, blondes, yog npaj txhij mus characterize los ntawm tus sau ntawm "Uncle Vanya" thiab "Cherry Orchard"?
"Blondes feem ntau yog coj cwj pwm zoo, coj tus cwj pwm, cev nqaij daim tawv, zoo li txiv thiab leej niam, quaj nrov ntawm novels thiab tu siab rau cov tsiaj. Lawv yog cov neeg ncaj ncees, lawv yog cov neeg nyob hauv lawv txoj kev ntseeg, nrog rau tsab ntawv tsis sib haum xeeb. Rau lwm tus 'hlub lawv yog sensitive, nyob hauv lawv tus kheej hlub lawv txias, xws li ntses. Thaum lub sijhawm tig mus, tus pojniam daj tau yawn thiab hais tias: "Tsis txhob hnov qab tag kis rau calico!" Thaum sib yuav, lawv tsis ntev los ua qaub, rog thiab ploj. Fertile, menyuam yaus thiab tu siab. Cov txiv neej tsis zam txim rau kev plees kev yi, lawv hloov siab lees txim. Cov poj niam ua rau pojniam daj feem ntau yog kev ntseeg, kev xav thiab xav txog lawv tus kheej tuag. "
Tsis txhob 't luag, brunettes, koj kuj tau nws!
"Brunettes tsis raws li tsim nyog li blondes. Lawv yog cov mobile, fickle, capricious, kub-tempered, feem ntau sib cav nrog leej niam thiab tuav lub puab tsaig ntawm cov nkauj qhe. Pib "tsis saib xyuas" rau cov txiv neej phem ua txij thaum muaj hnub nyoog 12 xyoos, kawm phem heev, cov tub ntxhais ntxub cov tub ntxhais kawm ntawv, hlub cov dab neeg, thiab hla piav qhia ntawm cov xwm thiab nyeem cov lus piav qhia tsib zaug. Lawv zoo siab, mob siab rau thiab hlub nrog kev zoo siab, tawm ntawm lub taub hau, ua rau nkawm ... Tus poj niam tus poj niam yog ib yam tseem ceeb. Nyob rau hauv ib tes, xws li ib tug passion tias dab ntxwg nyoog yog sickening, nyob rau lwm - whims, outfits, reckless logic, screeching, squeaking ... nrog ntxeev ntawm cov txiv neej ua sai sai, them lawv tib lub nyiaj. "
Tom qab ntawd, cov poj niam xim daj tso cai tsis nyob hauv tus neeg sau ntawv, vim nws muab ob peb lo lus thiab txawm tsis muaj lub siab ntsws xav!
"Cov poj niam tsis muaj plaub-xim poj niam tsis tau ncaim ntawm blondes thiab tsis tuaj rau brunettes. Lawv ua ib qho nruab nrab ntawm ob. Lawv xav txog lawv tus kheej ua brunettes ... "
Tab sis lub redhead yog unlucky feem ntau ntawm tag nrho cov!
"Kev dag ntxias, kev dag, kev siab phem, kev ntxub ntxaug ... Lawv tsis to taub kev hlub uas tsis muaj kev plees kev yig. Lawv feem ntau zoo heev stacked thiab muaj ib tug zoo nkauj liab daim tawv nqaij ntawm tag nrho lub cev. Lawv hais tias cov dab phem thiab cov nom tswv yuav tsum sib yuav liab. Nyob qhov twg lies, muaj cowardice thiab cowardice. Nws txaus los qw txoj cai ntawm redhead ("Kuv mam li muab rau koj!"), Yog li nws curled thiab pib hnia. Tsis txhob hnov qab tias Messalina thiab Nana muaj liab ... "
Thiab yog hais tias koj tsis tau poob dej tawm ntawm txoj kev npau taws, ces koj lub paj hlwb yuav tiv thaiv cov nqe lus no thiab. Tab sis qhov no tsuas yog siv rau cov neeg uas tsis mob cov plaub hau rau kev sib cais, tsis txhob hnav ib qho bang los yog hairpiece!
"Lub sijhawm thaum xaiv tus poj niam kuj tsis yog qhov tseem ceeb. Cov plaub hau khov kho, nplaum, nrog dawb txoj kev txhais tau tias yog kev xav, kev ntshaw xwb ... Tej yam kev haub ntxaum yog feem ntau hauv seamstresses, shopkeepers thiab traders 'girls. Ib txoj kab txiav plaub hau ntawm cov plaub hau, ua rau lub hauv pliaj, txhais tau hais tias tsis muaj av khov, tsis txawj ntse thiab ua lag luam. Qhov no strand feem ntau sim mus nkaum ib lub nqaim hau ... Chignon thiab feem ntau ornaments los ntawm lwm tus neeg cov plaub hau hais lus rau tsis muaj saj, tsis muaj lub tswv yim thiab qhov tseeb hais tias leej niam cuam tshuam nrog nws cov plaub hau. Cov plaub hau, combed rov qab, hais kom tus poj niam lub siab xav thov tsis tsuas nyob rau hauv pem hauv ntej, tab sis kuj los ntawm qab. Xws li cov plaub hau, yog tias nws tsis tuaj ntawm lub nroog Npanpiloo hnyav, txhais tau tias yog saj thiab yooj yim ntawm tus cwj pwm. Curly plaub hau hais lus rau kev ua si thiab kev nyiam ntawm qhov. Cov hairstyles tsis muaj kev vam meej, vskolchennaya yuav kev ntseeg lossis hlwb kev ua haujlwm. Nyob rau hauv lub cropped plaub hau tus duab ntawm kev xav disappears. Yog hais tias ib tug poj niam yog grey los yog bald thiab nyob rau tib lub sij hawm xav sib yuav, ces, yog li ntawd, nws muaj nyiaj ntau. Qhov tsawg dua hauv kev xaav plaub hau, muaj ntau yaam kws tug quaspuj hab ua rua ntau qhov kws nwg tsw muaj tuabneeg cov plaubhau. "
Qhov muag xim, raws li Anton Palych, yog ib qho tseem ceeb tshaj plaws hauv kev xaiv tus khub ntawm lub neej:
"Qhov muag xiav nrog povolokoy txhais tau tias kev ncaj ncees, kev tso siab thiab kev txo hwj chim. Cov kab xiav tawg yog feem ntau ntawm cov poj niam cheaters thiab corrupt cov poj niam. Ob lub qhov muag dub txhais tau tias mob siab, ceev npau npau thiab khaus. Nco ntsoov tias cov poj niam ntse tsis tshua muaj qhov muag dub. Grey yog nyob rau hauv lub dandies, tis thiab fool. Npau taws qhia cov lus xaiv thiab kev ntshaw ntawm lwm tus neeg cov khaub ncaws. "
Tab sis cov qauv tam sim no nrog cov ciaj ciam ntawm 90-60-90 raug xaiv tsa lub xyoo dhau los, suav tias tsis tsim nyog rau lawv tus kheej!
"Kev loj hlob xaiv qhov nruab nrab. Cov poj niam tsis paub cai thiab tsis zoo, cov me nyuam feem ntau tshwm sim rau lawv lub qhov ntswg thiab nyiam qw, kos thiab cia cov plaub hau. Humpbacks tsis txhob: cov evils thiab vipers ... "
Cov ntxhais, thiab tom qab sawv daws tau ploj mus los ntawm ntau theem ntawm "casting" txiv neej yuav tsis tuaj yeem thov peb caij!
"Tsaus mob, nrog kev ceev faj, hais txog kev chim siab thiab kev tsis sib haum xeeb. Kev taug kev yog tub nkeeg rau cov poj niam uas nws lub plawv twb raug lawm, - ntawm no koj tsis muaj noj su. Nkag taug kev, nrog perevaletsom thiab viljanem bustle, yog ib qho kev qhia zoo, malleability thiab qee zaum stupidity. Kev caij npav yog txaus siab, lub swan tshwm sim rau cov poj niam thiab cov poj niam me. Tus neeg khav tshaj qhov kev sib tw, tus hlob tus txiv neej ntawd yog, lub neej dua. Qhov kev vam meej nyob rau hauv cov ntxhais txhais tau hais tias kev xav thiab kev txwv. Yog hais tias tus poj niam tsis mus, tab sis swim nyiam pava, ces tig lub ncej: nws yuav pub, kev nplij siab, tab sis nws yuav yeej nyob hauv nws cov khau ... "
Tab sis nyob rau cov "tshwj xeeb cim" Chekhov qhia kom pom tseeb li yog tias cov txiv neej tab tom nrhiav rau ib tug tshwj xeeb raug teeb meem txhaum cai, tsis yog ib tug poj niam ntawm lub siab ...
"Dimples ntawm lub puab tsaig txhais tau tias coquetry, zais kev txhaum thiab zoo qhov. Dimples nyob rau ntawm lub puab tsaig thiab qhov muag vauj cog lus ntau, tab sis tsis yog rau platonist. Antennae tham txog infertility. Cov nails ntev nyob rau ntawm Belarus. Fused eyebrows txhais tau hais tias tus neeg no yuav yog ib leej niam nruj thiab ib tus ntxhiab siab heev niam tais. Cov quav hnyav feem ntau pom muaj nyob rau hauv cov poj niam liab-plaub dub, qhev thiab neeg ruam. Puffy thiab sodnenkie cov poj niam hluas nrog lawv lub puab tsaig thiab liab txhais tes yog naïve, plaub yuam kev tau ua nyob rau hauv cov lus, tab sis lawv sai sai kawm ua noj pies cua thiab xaws velvet vests rau lawv tus txiv ... "
Tab sis, txhua yam uas koj nyeem ua ntej qhov no, xav txog qhov kev hlub tawm ntawm romantic. Lub prose ntawm lub neej pib tsuas yog tam sim no ...
"Tsis muaj peev xwm yuav yuav tsis muaj ib tug taub hau. Yuav tsis muaj kev sib yuav yog zoo li ib tug zib ntab tsis muaj rab diav, Shmul tsis muaj paces, khau boots tsis tau qab. Kev hlub nyob rau hauv nws tus kheej, ib tug taub hau nws tus kheej. Nug 200 000 tam sim ntawd. Stunned los ntawm tus xov tooj, pib kev sib tham, rhuav, crocheting. Tseem yuav tsum ua ntej lub tshoob. Tsis txhob txais cov nqi sib tw, daim coupon, cov khoom sib koom, thiab kov txhua tus kov, hnia thiab saib qhov kaj, vim nws tsis yog qhov txawv rau cov niam txiv muab cov ntxhais dag ntxias lawv cov ntxhais. Ntxiv rau cov nyiaj, tau koj tus kheej kom txaus ... "
Thiab tsuas yog tom qab nyeem cov kab no, koj yuav tshem tawm hws hws ntawm koj lub hauv pliaj, thiab tom qab ntawd koj yuav pom koj tus kheej hluas, zoo nkauj, tsis muaj piano thiab 18 tsho ntawm cov ntaub ntawv zoo tshaj plaws Dutch, ywj pheej thiab nyiam, nyiam tsis muaj rooj nyiaj, thiab txawm yog qhov zoo siab tshaj plaws , los ntawm qhov tseeb hais tias koj yuav tsis hnov cov lus: "Txhob nco tias kuv tau ua rau koj zoo siab!"
Thiab tag nrho vim hais tias ...
"Ib tug poj niam, txawm tias ib tug neeg phem, yuav tsum coj nrog nws:
a) ntau rooj tog thiab piano;
b) ib tug featherbed on swan feather cia thiab peb pam vov: ipad, woolen thiab ntawv;
c) ob lub tsho tiv no, ib qho rau cov hnub caiv, ib yam rau lub neej txhua hnub;
d) ntau cov tshuaj yej, chav ua mov thiab chav noj mov;
e) 18 tsho ntawm cov Dutch zoo nkauj, nrog kho kom zoo nkauj; 6 tsho tiv no los ntawm tib daim ntaub nrog lace trim; 6 blouses los ntawm nansu; 6 leeg ntawm pantaloons los ntawm tib daim ntaub thiab ntau tus khub ntawm cov lus Askiv tsiaj txhooj; 6 taum mauv ntawm madapolam nrog firmware thiab plating; ib tug negligee los ntawm qhov zoo tshaj plaws kev cai raus dej victoria; 4 ib nrab-Pants ntawm tus kev cai raus dej-victoria; 6 khi ntawm knickers. Cov ntawv txheeb, cov ntaub hauv ncoo, cov pob tw, cov vov tsev, daim ntawv tiab, daim iav, cov ntaub pua rooj, cov phuam qhwv ntsej muag thiab lwm yam. yuav tsum muaj txaus. Tag nrho cov no nws tus kheej, xyuas, suav, thiab dab tsi yog tsis txaus, tam sim ntawd demand. Cov me nyuam hauv qab ris tsho tsis noj, vim tias muaj ib qho kos npe: muaj linen - tsis muaj me nyuam, muaj menyuam - tsis muaj linen;
e) Tsis txhob hnav cov ris tsho, nws lub tswv yim hloov tsis tau sai sai, thov kom teeb meem;
g) Txhob yuav tsis muaj txua ntoo.
Kev ua txij ua nkawm, ua nruj nruj thiab ncaj ncees nrog koj tus poj niam, tsis txhob cia nws tsis nco, thiab nrog txhua yam tsis to taub nws qhia: "Nco ntsoov tias kuv tau ua rau koj zoo siab!"
1885 xyoo.